Is it a fair trade?
That all depends on the quality of sex as it directly relates to the quantity of dishes.
I would definitely say your husband believes it to be fair or else he wouldn't agree to the same terms again.
Although I don't see his doing the dishes to be any more of a bribe than giving you a massage to get you in the mood would be.
Sometimes it's too hard to relax when there are things (chores) that need to be done and doing them makes it easier to relax.
Around here, my wife usually washes and I dry and put them away.
No asking, let alone bribing is needed to get it done.
The thing is (and I know my wife knows this), is that I would wash, dry, put away, build her a new house, and watch every romantic comedy ever made with her, if I could only get a BJ once in a while!

I hear a lot of hatred in these answers to a question asked by what is obviously a very down to earth gal who sounds like an awesome wife to have, hell do you women have any idea how much more I would do around the house for more sex?! PLA_LEEZ!
If it meant good sex even twice a week (exceptions made for sickies or aunt flo) I would continue through those down times no questions asked!
Your awesome kissthis!

We bet on things sometimes and the loser does all the work. But thats about all I can do because he knows his going to get it anyway so there is no way I could get him to trade for the dishes....Damn that's where I went wrong! lol

LMFAO@lady Wildcat. Maybe you should trade sex for your husband to finance the pole to be surgically removed from your @ss. just a suggestion from a w-h-o-r-e and her p-u-s-s-y husband. lol

If a husband has to wash the dishes in order to get sex from his wife, then that makes him a p-u-s-s-y and it makes her a w-h-o-r-e.

Because only a w-h-o-r-e would have sex with a man in exchange for something else. And if that man happens to be her husband ... well, that doesn't speak well of that marriage.

Men don't have to grovel, beg, plead, or "do chores" in order to get sex. Not if they play things right, anyway.

That's because women are more sexual than men are. That's a fact.

We have a body part that's 100% devoted to sexual arousal, while men don't. We can also have multiple orgasms; men cannot.

Why do you think so many women buy vibrators? It's not because we're mixing concrete!
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UHUH ...I sure do .....men will do anything if they are on a promise......LOL

He wants...well you get the idea, what men always want...(no, not That, the other). I want the dishes done. Fair trade? I say so.

Do you bribe your husbands? Or better yet, bet on football games?

Not after ten years of marriage.